Friday, June 5, 2009

Sometimes you shouldn't say what is on your mind.

My husband called my inlaws tonight to tell him about our children. We didn't call to ask for support or advice, just to give them the news they would be grandparents again very soon.
Well my father in law goes into a rant about what if something is wrong with them and we should thinl long and hard about adopting these. kids..REALLY? do you think we didnt think long and hard? DO you think we went into being foster parents not knowing what the challenges might be? Do you think that seeing these kids and meeting them and falling in love with them make them any less my children ...
I dont think i ll ever be able to forgive or forget that...

BUT on a positive note the kiddos are spending the night 2 times next week!

3 comments:

Sam and Kerry said...

Wow. That is harsh. Just enjoy your kiddos, that is all that matters.

Melissa said...

I am hoping that they have enough sense to apologize so they dont miss out on being grandparents...praying for your family at this time

Nichole said...

hopefully when they get to know them they won't feel that way

it's so hard when you feel that something is so perfect and meant to be and you aren't given that support and understanding